How to Make Him Fall in Love with You

Wondering how to make him fall in love with you? Well then, look no further, as the article below will give you a step by step guide on how to make him fall in love with you!So you've finally bagged a date with your dream guy after what seems to have been eons. What next? How do you make him fall in love with you? Well, as uphill as this task may seem, it's not all that difficult. While you may stay up all night wondering how to make him fall in love with you, the answer is right in front of you! Given below are a few tips to make him fall in love with you - over and over, again and again!

How to Make Him Fall in Love with You: Do Your Homework
Now before you grab that science textbook impending with tons of homework, let me explain. When I say do your homework, I mean try and find out about the guy you're all set to go out with. Even if it is a blind date, try and get some basic information about the guy, like his likes, dislikes, taste in music, movies, books, etc. This can help greatly as conversation starters with a guy (or at least you'll know beforehand whether the guy you're about to go out with is a freak).

How to Make Him Fall in Love with You: Be Yourself!
Most girls, especially if they're out with a guy for the first time, try to be either all girly, with batting eyelids and overdone make-up or try to be that guy's ideal match, having just mugged up the latest baseball games stats. The fact is that such tactics will only help you get so far in your relationship. Sooner or later, the guy will find out that you hate the Red Sox or that you can't stand Metallica. So quit trying to be what he wants you to be and just be yourself! Any guy who can't love you for who you are, is a guy not worth loving! Read more on how to approach a guy.

How to Make Him Fall in Love with You: Dress Up!
Alright, alright, some of you may think that this point is in direct contradiction to what I said above. Let me explain. When I say dress up, I mean at least look presentable. Don't rush for your first date straight from your science lab smelling of hydrogen peroxide. One of the important dating tips is to dress up, as dressing up helps to not only make you feel a lot more confident, but it also makes a great first impression. After all, you don't want to catch him eying the waitress, because if you're dressed like a slob, you're the only one to blame! Read more on how to get a guy to notice you.

How to Make Him Fall in Love with You: Be Humorous!
A simple relationship advice is to be humorous. Let's face it, it's not just girls who want a guy that can make them laugh, but this theory works the other way round too. Cracking jokes, even if they are sometimes aimed at you, always helps a guy connect a lot more easily (it also makes him understand how confident you are about yourself and that you're not one of those 'Oh, I'm so high and mighty' girls). Don't be such a sophisticated bore that in the middle of a conversation, he starts drifting off day dreaming about what he could be doing instead with his best friend Sam. Of course, don't be so loud and aggressive that he starts thinking that his boys night outs are like tea party's. Instead, be casual and receptive to his jokes. Making fun of things in general is a great way to carry on a conversation, as humor can also be a great ice breaker. Read more on fun questions to ask a guy.

How to Make Him Fall in Love with You: Play Hard to Get!
Of course, this is almost understood, but still, how can any girl to girl advice on dating be complete without you being told to play hard to get! Of course, once again the important point to consider is moderation. Don't be Kate Beckinsale in Serendipity, leaving your number on some random novel, waiting for your John Cusack to find it. That way, let me tell you, you'll be left waiting forever. Instead, don't call him immediately after a date to fix up the next one. Give him and yourself some time and space to think about it. Don't breathe down his neck for God's sake! Playing a little hard to get always helps perk the curiosity factor in a relationship, which trust me, goes a long way in keeping one.

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These were just some ways to make him fall in love with you. In case you're a couple that's going through some relationship issues, you can still use these tips to make him fall back in love with you. In the end, like they say, you don't 'go' in love but 'fall' in love, so quit trying out desperate tactics on how to make him fall in love with you! Instead, take your time, wait for your Mr. Right to come along and let it happen to you. Only then will you truly experience the magic of that crazy little thing called love!
By Dr. Sumaiya Khan
Published: 2/26/2010